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Wednesday, April 19, 2006

JULIA ROBERTS BIOGRAPHY


Born: 28 October 1967Where: Atlanta, Georgia, USAAwards: Won 1 Oscar, 3 Golden Globes, 1 BAFTA and 1 Emmy nominationHeight: 5' 9"
Filmography: The Complete ListWhen Julia Roberts won the 2001 Best Actress Oscar for her performance as self-made lawyer and Woman Of The People Erin Brokovich, the award seemed to reflect a popular acceptance that she had finally arrived as a "serious" actress. Due to the outrageous success of Pretty Woman, eleven years before, people had considered her to be most at home being charming in romantic comedies (and, by God, was she charming). For long periods her love life was scrutinised more avidly than her films. And then there were the ever-increasing wage-packets that saw her not only as Hollywood's most sought-after female headliner but also a major rival to the likes of Cruise, Gibson and Schwarzenegger. Throughout the Nineties, for all her efforts to widen her scope, she was seen primarily as a movie star, hardly as an actress at all. It was forgotten that actually, as the doomed Shelby in Steel Magnolias, she'd been Oscar-nominated for a dramatic role before the Pretty Woman explosion blinded us all.She was born Julie Fiona Roberts in Atlanta, Georgia, on October 28, 1967, into a very large extended family of English, Welsh, Scottish and Irish extraction (Roberts legend has it that some Cherokee also crept into the gene pool at some point). Her father, Walter, was a genuine outsider, not sharing the conservative, macho values of his farming-stock family. Instead, he was artistic and sensitive, wearing tight clothes with a European cut, even daring to become a drama student. Having joined the air force to take advantage of the recent GI Bill that gave a free education to those in the armed forces, he wound up at the Keesler base at Biloxi, Mississippi. Here, in 1955 auditioning for a stage production of George Washington Slept Here, he won both a role and the heart of the play's vivacious blonde ingenue, Betty Lou Bredemus.
Betty Lou, born in Minneapolis and partly of Swedish blood, had studied drama and worked in stock companies before, like Walter, making use of the GI Bill. She and Walter would marry and move back to Atlanta, where they'd have three kids - Eric, Lisa and Julie. They'd also establish and run a children's theatre at their home and, being amongst the first whites to defy Georgia's colour lines, their pupils would include the children of Martin Luther King. It's rumoured that, given the theatre was not profitable, the Kings not only sponsored it but actually paid the costs of young Julie's birth at the Crawford Long Hospital. Sadly, she would never speak to the great peacemaker, who was assassinated in Memphis before she was 6 months old.Julie's first years were spent in a 2-storey house in middle-class midtown Atlanta. Here, she'd watch the theatre workshops while Eric and Lisa would join in (she'd later claim the only acting advice she got from her father was "Don't ever say anything unless it means something"). Unfortunately, the financial situation exerted so much pressure on Walter and Betty Lou that their marriage began to crack. Usually charming and charismatic, he became occasionally abusive. She, in turn, was not faithful. They'd split when Julie was just 4. Walter would remain in Atlanta with Eric (then 16), taking a job selling vacuum cleaners in a department store to make ends meet. Betty Lou would move with the girls to Smyrna, a suburb just out of town to the north-west. Here Betty would become a church secretary, then a real estate agent, quickly getting married to Michael Motes (in 1976, the union would provide Julie with a half-sister, Nancy).In Smyrna, Julie would attend the Fitzhugh Lee Elementary School, Griffin Middle School and Campbell High School. She learned to ride at the riding school opened by her paternal grandfather on his retirement, and loved animals in general, following the local vet on his rounds and often returning home with stray or injured creatures. At school, she would be teased for her big mouth and glasses and, according to Eric, would be given a hard time at home by her step-father (though Julia herself would never mention the subject). Though she would occasionally take part in Shakespeare plays put on by English teacher David Boyd (she'd also play Elizabeth Dole in an election skit), there were no official drama classes that would encourage her to follow in her parents' footsteps. There was, though, tennis - she was on the school team -and poetry. An insecure girl, she became convinced that one of her teachers disliked her and asked if, as she wasn't going to pass in that subject anyway, she might spend the class-time in the library. She was given permission and spent the time reading, making several important discoveries, in particular Walt Whitman's classic collection of poetry, Leaves Of Grass. She would read this every day for months, later growing to love the works of Faulkner, Hardy, Hemingway and F. Scott Fitzgerald.Two particular events in this period left a deep and lasting mark. One was the death from cancer of her father, when he was just 47 and she was just ten. Walter had died disillusioned and unfulfilled, making young Julie desperate to make a success of herself (in fact, she later claimed this event was like a re-birth). The other was the sudden breakthrough of her brother, Eric. Having scored a role in the soap Another World in 1977, the following year he was a hit in King Of The Gypsies (with Shelley Winters and a young Susan Sarandon), his hot run continuing through The Pope Of Greenwich village to a 1985 Oscar nomination for Runaway Train. His example showed her what was possible and how it could be done.Graduating from High School in 1985, within days she'd taken off for New York City, where she moved in with big sister Lisa, now also an aspiring actress. Here she'd attend acting classes while working at Baskin-Robbins and at the Ann Taylor designer boutique on Fulton Street at the foot of Manhattan. She scored herself an agent but no acting jobs came her way - she was even turned down for the soap All My Children. Needing a SAG card to get work, she discovered there was already an actress named Julie Roberts. Thus was Julia Roberts created. Eventually she signed up with the Click modelling agency but hated the work - after the persecution she'd suffered at school, she still considered herself to be radically unattractive, and consequently an imposter.Now an Oscar nominee and big news, it was down to Eric to engineer his little sister's first screen break in 1986, in Blood Red. This was the tale of Sicilian immigrants in 1890's California, battling for their vineyards against evil Dennis Hopper who wants to run a railroad across their land and sends thugs to clear them off. Eric would play the hero, seeking revenge for the murder of his father, Julia popping up as his sister, who witnesses the patriarch's slaying. Sadly, the movie would not serve as any kind of launch-pad for the young hopeful. Delayed for several years, it would enjoy only a very limited cinema release in 1988.By then, Julia would be well on her way. Having appeared in an episode of the TV series Crime Story (later would come Miami Vice), she made her screen debut with a tiny role in the wacky sex-farce Firehouse, where the least effective fire station in town is transformed by the introduction of often naked female rookies (Julia was not one who revealed her assets).The next year, 1988, would see her charge up the ladder of success. First came Satisfaction, where she played the slutty bass-player in an all-girl band led by Justine Bateman (of Family Ties fame), playing a residency at a beach-side roadhouse. Setting her sights on a vile preppie guy she meets on the beach, she's confused when her former boyfriend turns up with a proposal of marriage. Meanwhile, there's all sorts of shenanigans involving Bateman, club promoter Liam Neeson and a returning Deborah Harry. The movie would be re-titled Girls Of Summer once Julia had become a star. In the future, she'd also see a great deal more of Neeson.Next she made her TV movie debut in Baja Oklahoma where wannabe singer Lesley Ann Warren, a waitress in Fort Worth suffering terrible luck with her career and her men, is inspired by ex-flame Peter Coyote to attempt to make the Grand Ole Oprey. Roberts would appear as Warren's wayward daughter, adding to her woes by running off to Aspen with a dope-dealing boyfriend.The year would end with her first critical hit, Mystic Pizza. Set in a Connecticut fishing town, this saw three poor Portuguese-American friends (Lili Taylor and sisters Julia and Annabeth Gish) working in a pizza joint and tasting the first fruits of adult life and love. Here seductive, hot-headed Roberts would fall for another preppie, this one having been kicked out of college for cheating, her street-smartness proving far more effective than his high education. As said, the movie (featuring a young Matt Damon) was well-received, with Roberts in particular earning high praise. But she nearly didn't get it. At her first reading she was told that she wasn't physically right for the part - they needed someone darker, more Portuguese. So she slapped on some black hair mousse and nabbed the part, despite the fact that, during her audition, as her "boyfriend" stroked her hair, the dye was coming off all over his hands.Though Mystic Pizza brought her to the attention of critics and public, her career still needed another boost. This was provided by Sally Field, the double Oscar winner and author of the notorious acceptance speech beginning "You like me! You really like me!" At this point, Field was married to Alan Greisman, the producer of Satisfaction, and had taken young Julia under her wing, acting as a form of mentor. Now she pushed to get her protegee involved in her next project, to be titled Steel Magnolias, even performing Julia's final audition with her. Her efforts would pay off - Roberts would be hired to play her daughter, Shelby. Again, it might never have happened as, after filming Mystic Pizza, Roberts had been struck down by a mysterious, never-identified disease. After several weeks in hospital, then several more convalescing at home, her visiting mother offered to read with her a script that had been sat there for ages. Julia had refused then, only later picking up Steel Magnolias and realising the opportunity it offered.Set primarily in a Louisiana beauty parlour, Steel Magnolias would follow the trials and triumphs of a group of funny, sensitive but tough Southern belles, Shirley Maclaine playing a bitter divorcee and Dolly Parton the witty, sexy hairdresser. The high emotion would be brought by Julia, as a bride-to-be enduring child-bearing problems and a vicious case of diabetes, and attempting to live her life to the full as her health dramatically deteriorates (as Shelby says herself "I'd rather have 3 minutes of wonderful than a lifetime of nothing special"). Despite accusations of over-emoting, the movie would be a major success, with Roberts herself winning a Golden Globe and an Oscar nomination. She also picked up a fiance in co-star Dylan McDermott. But nothing could prepare her for what happened next.This next project had been hanging around for a while, and had been offered to her before Steel Magnolias boosted her profile. Called 3000, it would have seen her play a bolshy, foul-mouthed, drug-addled, poorly-educated hooker who spends a week with a bolshy, foul-mouthed but tremendously handsome and wealthy businessman. She was up for it, but was denied when Vestron collapsed and the project was turned over to Disney where Garry Marshall turned it into an altogether nicer piece. So, the film now being Disney and thoroughly nice, Meg Ryan became the producers' target lead. Julia would have to fight for it and, with yet more help from Sally Field, she did, eventually winning the title role in what was now to be titled Pretty Woman.In its revised form, the film would see Roberts driven to prostitution and hired as a week-long escort by corporate raider Richard Gere. Tutored in social graces by the hotel manager, she does a My Fair Lady and charms the pants off of everyone, quite literally in the case of Gere, winning both a man and a fine future. Her barely suppressed exuberance was a major hit with audiences, too. On a budget of $14 million, the film would gross $178 million in the US alone, an explosive success that saw her win a second Golden Globe, and be both Oscar-nominated and immediately crowned as Hollywood's latest superstar.The furore would coincide with severe turbulence in her private life. Five days after wrapping on Pretty Woman, she'd moved on to Joel Schumacher's spooky ensemble piece Flatliners. Here a gang of medical students, led by Keifer Sutherland and wanting to discover more about a possible afterlife, take it in turns to have their heart stopped then re-started. Both selfish visionary Sutherland and caring pragmatist Kevin Bacon are in love with Julia, the emotional heart of the movie, playing a dedicated healer haunted by memories of her dead father (in order to reach appropriately heightened levels of performance, she would discuss with Schumacher her own feelings for Walter). The film was beautifully shot by Schumacher, and it gave Roberts both another financial success and a new fiance in Sutherland. But, just as quickly as her life had taken off, so it began to spectacularly blow up.After Pretty Woman, Roberts was major tabloid news and her imminent marriage to bad boy Sutherland began a feeding frenzy. Sadly, even as the world was seeking details of the nuptials, the relationship was falling apart, the final blow coming when Julia discovered Sutherland had had an affair with stripper Amanda Rice. Just days before the proposed wedding in June, 1991, she took off for Ireland with Sutherland's best friend (and Lost Boys co-star) Jason Patric. With three films released that year (her heavy schedule meant she'd missed out on Godfather 3), Roberts' face was ubiquitous. Yet her performances, and her Golden Globes and Oscar nominations were hardly mentioned, just the glamour, the kooky laugh, the gawky naivety and the scandal. She would have to work far harder than most for the respect those accolades usually bring.Her first 1991 release was the thriller Sleeping With The Enemy, bringing her first $1 million pay-check. Here she played the young trophy wife of wealthy financial advisor Patrick Bergin, a man who terrorises her physically and mentally. Unable to stand any more, she fakes her own death and does a runner, only to be traced by her increasingly malevolent spouse. Directed by Joseph Ruben, who'd earlier made The Stepfather, it begin as a tale of abuse and ended as a slasher flick. Far less frenetic would be Dying Young, reuniting her with Joel Schumacher. As with Pretty Woman, here she played a working-class, ill-educated charmer, this time hired by rich guy Campbell Scott to help him in his struggle against leukaemia. Gradually they fall for one another, but Julia also has the hots for handyman Vincent D'Onofrio (formerly her co-star in Mystic Pizza) and thus must choose whether to stay faithful to her dying lover. In the original cut of the movie, her decision would so incense test audiences (Julia wouldn't do anything like that, godammit!) that the producers demanded a change. This incredible year would end with an appearance in one of cinema's most notorious oddities, Steven Spielberg's Hook. This would see Robin Williams as a grown-up Peter Pan, whose children are kidnapped by Dustin Hoffman's titular Captain Hook, a bounder keen for a rematch. So Pan must return to Neverland, and rediscover himself, as his former magical nature is the only thing that can save the kids. Roberts would play the fairy Tinkerbell, a character most often viewed as a twinkle of light zipping around the scenery. The movie would be panned for many reasons - one being that this was not the most judicious use of the brightest star in the world.After this crazy two-year period, deciding against publishing a book of her own poems, titled The Makings Of Insanity, Roberts now chose to stay out of the headlines, lessen her workload, choose her projects carefully, sort her life out. In this she was helped by relentless stream of trite scripts reprising Pretty Woman, but she also turned down Basic Instinct and Sleepless In Seattle. Eventually, after a very brief appearance as herself in Robert Altman's The Player, she returned in 1993 with The Pelican Brief, a John Grisham thriller where she played a law student who discovers a link between the assassination of two Supreme Court judges and some very important, very dangerous people. She seeks help from the FBI, then investigative journo Denzel Washington, the glamorous, heroic duo being forced to flee from faceless villains. It would be a very difficult shoot for Roberts who was unsure whether, after her extended break, she was capable of a headlining performance. But experienced director Alan Pakula steadied her, and she was calmed by the presence of Sam Shepard who she knew from Steel Magnolias. And there was the ever-dependable Washington, who'd become such a good friend that, in at the 2001 Academy Awards, Roberts would show scant feeling for the other nominees when announcing his victory.There was another reason for Roberts' emotional turmoil during the shooting of The Pelican Brief - she got married. Her husband was the musician Lyle Lovett, who she'd met on the set of The Player in 1992. The tabloids again went insane, with many of the headlines sharing a cruel Beauty And The Beast theme - Lovett being of unconventional looks. What could the stunning Roberts have been thinking? It was simple, really. Lovett was ten years older, had studied journalism and European languages and was very well read and travelled. He was idiosyncratic, extremely witty and had been deemed far too weird for the country community of Nashville. For Roberts, he must have been highly entertaining, rebelliously artistic and also a rock of experience as her life threatened to spiral out of control. Sadly, the pressures of her absurd fame caused the marriage to founder within a year, and they were divorced in 1995. They would, though, remain friends, and Roberts would even sing one of Lovett's songs in her 1998 movie Stepmom. To discover more about the relationship, uber-fans have spent long hours poring over the lyrics of Lovett's 1996 album, The Road To Ensenada.Also in 1993, Julia would accept a Lifetime Achievement from the Screen Actors' guild on behalf of Audrey Hepburn, then too ill to attend. Hepburn herself had made this request as, aside from Pretty Woman sharing its subject matter with My Fair Lady, Roberts had begun working for UNICEF, a charity long-backed by Hepburn1994 would see Roberts make two further onscreen appearances. First was I Love Trouble where she played a keen cub reporter for a Chicago newspaper, continually scooping grizzled veteran Nick Nolte. The pair cheat and deceive one another - Julia being sly and charming, Nolte macho and exasperated - until they discover that a hormone being given to cows is making their milk cancer-inducing, and must work together. Then she'd return to Robert Altman for Pret-A-Porter, digging into the world of Parisian fashion shows. Roberts would play a fashion reporter who battles with rival hack Tim Robbins, their relationship being confused by the fact that they keep getting drunk and sleeping with each other. The year would also see her reading the poetry of Pablo Neruda on the soundtrack of the Oscar-nominated Il Postino.With her marriage over (she'd entered relationships first with Daniel Day-Lewis, then Matthew Perry, the latter getting her to appear in an episode of Friends in 1996), 1995 saw her only in Lasse Hallstrom's Something To Talk About. Here she's cuckolded by husband Dennis Quaid and, though pressured to forgive by family and townsfolk, she reacts hilariously by confronting him in front of his drinking buddies and then, at a Women's Institute-style meeting, revealing the shameful secrets of those judging her. It was a slight movie, but it did allow her to run the gamut of frustration, anger, rebellion and heroism.Ever keen to expand her thespian horizons, and to prove that she could deliver the goods outside of romantic comedy, 1996 saw her enthusiastically pushing back the envelope. First came Stephen Frears' Mary Reilly, where she played the Irish housemaid of John Malkovich's Dr Jekyll. At first she's timid and fearful, then gradually attracted to her unravelling employer. He, in turn, discovering that she still loves a father who beat her and locked her in a cellar with rats, recognises that she might accept him despite the terrible transformation that's overwhelming him. Thus she's drawn deeper into his disaster.Washed-out and scurrying, Mary Reilly was clearly intended to have us see Roberts as an actress rather than a superstar. And, though the movie was not a hit, it worked to a degree. She continued on the Irish tip with Neil Jordan's epic Michael Collins, playing the love interest who comes between freedom fighter Liam Neeson and his friend and co-strategist Aidan Quinn (earlier, she'd also enjoyed a real-life relationship with Neeson, who she knew from Satisfaction). She'd end the year with Woody Allen's Everyone Says I Love You, where Allen, unlucky in love, takes his unhappy daughter on a trip to Venice. Here he sees Julia, falls hard, but has no hope of winning her - until, that is, his daughter, whose best friend's mother is Roberts' therapist, uses inside information to coach her dad in romantic strategy. The movie was sweet and fun, and marked by the cast suddenly bursting into song, Julia contributing All My Life.Now accepting that her best chance of continuing success might lie in alternating dramas with the rom-coms her public so loved, 1997 saw Roberts score another massive hit with PJ Hogan's My Best Friend's Wedding. Here, when her best buddy Dermot Mulroney gets engaged to Cameron Diaz, Julia realises that she loves the guy and travels across country to infiltrate proceedings and sabotage the marriage. It was high-quality knockabout fare, and earned her another Golden Globe nomination. It was very different from her next project, Conspiracy Theory, where Mel Gibson would play a cab driver constantly boring his customers with his wild-eyed thoughts on sinister global elites. Julia would appear as the Justice Department agent he turns to when he stumbles upon a real conspiracy and has dark forces attempt to silence him.1998 would bring just one screen appearance, in the heartstring-strumming Stepmom. Here she hooked up with divorced Ed Harris but, try as she might, she cannot win over his kids, who are being turned against her by former wife Susan Sarandon. Then Sarandon discovers she's dying and realises that Roberts will become their mother whether she likes it or not.Stepmom was a hit, but small fry compared to the double whammy Roberts pulled off in 1999. Having turned down the lead in Shakespeare In Love, this began with Notting Hill where she played a movie star visiting London, who gets involved with bumbling bookstore owner Hugh Grant. Together, the couple crashed through the top of the charm-o-meter, they were cute beyond reason, and Roberts scored yet another Golden Globe nomination. The only way she could hope to top it was by reuniting with the Pretty Woman crew - Richard Gere and Garry Marshall - which she now did with Runaway Bride. Here Gere would play a cynical hack who writes a story about Roberts, a mid-Western girl who, apparently, has left a string of men fuming and weeping at the altar. Flying out to research more deeply, he . . . well, you can guess the rest.The new millennium saw another turnaround. My Best Friend's Wedding, Notting Hill and Runaway Bride had made Roberts the biggest female star in the world. But now, due to her efforts throughout the Nineties, people were able and willing to accept her as a dramatic actress (she'd also been Emmy-nominated for an appearance in the TV show Law And Order). This was proven beyond doubt by Stephen Soderbergh's Erin Brokovich where she played a divorced mum, desperate for work, who wheedles her way into a lowly position at a law firm and proceeds to organise a successful investigation into a public utility that has poisoned an entire community. She was sexy, brassy and full-on, especially bolshy in her dealings with rival lawyers (one being Peter Coyote, earlier her co-star in Baja Oklahoma) and her own boss, Albert Finney. She would be rewarded with a third Golden Globe and, going one step further than the brother who'd inspired her, a Best Actress Oscar. Now in the third year of a relationship with Law and Order actor Benjamin Bratt, it was all looking good - though Bratt would leave her in 2001.Continuing to ring the changes, she now appeared alongside Brad Pitt in The Mexican, where Pitt played a useless petty crim who seeks redemption by going down to Mexico to collect a priceless handgun for mobster Gene Hackman. Roberts, meanwhile, was his dominating, disenchanted girlfriend, who takes off for Vegas, where she's kidnapped by heavy James Gandolfini. In the movie's best scenes, she gradually gets under his skin and begins to dominate him, too. Off-screen, she also won the heart of cameraman Daniel Moder. The couple would marry in July, 2002, with Roberts giving birth to twins - Phinneas Walter and Hazel Patricia - in late 2004. Giving her away at the wedding would be one Mick Devine, an Irishman she'd hired as a chauffeur and befriended when doing a Runaway Bride on Keifer Sutherland eleven years before.The Mexican was a reasonable effort, but many complained that Roberts and Pitt, perhaps the fairest movie stars of their sex, spent so little screen time together. She moved on to America's Sweethearts where she played the meek sister of film diva Catherine Zeta Jones, helping Jones' estranged husband, John Cusack, to try to win her back, but gradually taking his heart for her own. Then she reunited with Pitt and Stephen Soderbergh (and Matt Damon) for Ocean's Eleven. Here George Clooney would gather a gang of crooks to simultaneously rob three Vegas casinos run by Andy Garcia. The gang thinks it's all for money, then discover that Garcia is presently seeing Clooney's ex-wife, Julia. Roberts' scenes with Clooney, marked by her casual mistrust of him, were among the movie's highlights.Having popped up briefly in Grand Canyon, a feel-good kids' film that saw the headlining debut of her niece - Eric's daughter, Emma - she then stayed with Soderbergh (and, briefly, Pitt) for Full Frontal. This, made for just $2 million, showed a day in the life of Hollywood's entertainment industry, with Julia as a movie star playing a journalist interviewing a movie star - a movie within a movie within a movie. With break-ups, dog deaths and kinky massages, it was interesting enough, but a tad self-conscious. More successful was Confessions Of A Dangerous Mind, Clooney's directorial debut. Taken from the memoirs of gameshow host Chuck Barris, in which he claimed to have been a hitman for the CIA, this saw Julia as the CIA's own Nietzsche-quoting Mata Hari, recruiting Barris and occasionally boosting his morale. Working for scale (still $250,000 for 6 days labour), it was a favour for Clooney (Pitt and Damon would also appear).Financially speaking, it was easy to do favours as Roberts now broke all female records by receiving $25 million for Mona Lisa Smile. This saw her as a freethinking art teacher in the Fifties, who comes to work at a posh East Coast girls' school. Attempting to raise their ambitions higher than trophy wifedom, she encounters hostility from conservative pupil Kirsten Dunst and the authorities. Far harsher would be 2004's Closer, based on the Patrick Marber play and directed by Mike Nichols. Here she played a photographer who, over a period of years, falls for writer Jude Law, cruelly dumping boyfriend Clive Owen, who ends up with Law's stripper girlfriend Natalie Portman. It was tough stuff, questioning our ability to love anyone at all. Ocean's Twelve - this time involving artwork robberies all over Europe, and reuniting her with the old gang as well as Catherine Zeta Jones - would come as light relief, indeed.Beginning as the unknown sister of Eric Roberts, Julia's success has been incredible, her movies grossing well over $2.5 billion. She is among the highest paid stars in the world, male or female, and owns homes in New York, the Hollywood hills and Taos, New Mexico. She likes dogs and knitting, and works, as said, for UNICEF as well as Paul Newman's Hole In The Wall Gang and a charity attempting to find a cure for Rett Syndrome, a sometimes fatal disease which randomly attacks girls between the ages of 2 and 6. She also runs a production company, called Shoelace Productions. Its first production was Stepmom. Later would come Mona Lisa Smile and a superbly witty TV series called Queens Supreme, following the backstage antics of judges and starring Annabella Sciorra and Oliver Platt. The gawky girl with the big mouth and glasses sure done good.



Tuesday, April 11, 2006

تفاوت پسرها و دخترها

تجربه نشون داده که روی حرف پسرها نميشه حساب کرد ! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها عمدتا تنوع طلب هستند و خيلی سخت قانع ميشوند ! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها برای رسيدن به چيزی حاضرند دست به هرکاری بزنند ! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها در مورد دوستان همجنس خود هيچ تضمينی در مورد رفاقت ندارند ! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها برای ايجاد امنيت برای gf خودشون حاضرند دست به خودکشی های مصلحتی بزنند! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها برای عاشق شدن خيلی ساده هستند و راحت گول ميخورند! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها 90% از دخترها کمتر در مورد چيزی تلاش ميکنند!و نتيجه ی بهتری هم ميگيرند ! بخصوص در مورد درس ! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها اگه در واقعيت به چيزی نرسند شروع به رويا پردازی ميکنند!و در خيال به آن ميرسند! تجربه نشون داده که پسرها عمدتا ( نه همگی) در برخورد اول چهره ی ساختگی از خود نشون ميدهند! ولی در مورد دخترها ! : تجربه نشون داده که روی حرف دخترها تا وقتی که پای پسر ديگری ميون نباشه خيلی ميشه حساب کرد ولی متاسفانه هميشه پسر ديگری وجود داره !!!!!!! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها تنوع طلب تر از پسرها هستند !اگه ليست بگيريم ! يه پسر اگه خوش شانس باشه روزی 1 شماره ميتونه به يه دختر بده ! ولی يه دختر در يک روز شايد 200 تا شماره از پسر بگيره !!! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها برای رسيدن به چيزی دست به کار فيزيکی نميزنند ! ولی هر کلک يا حقه ای که بتونند رو اجرا ميکنند ! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها فقط از روی مصالح خود با دوستان همجنس خود ارتباط دارند( شايد کمبود امکانات ! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها برای فهميدن دوستی طرف مقابل صحنه سازی های مصلحتی ميکنند! در مورد پسرهايی که باعث مزاحمت و رنجش حاج خانوم شده اند صحبت ميکنند !) تجربه نشون داده که دخترها ديرتر به کسی اعتماد ميکنند و بيشتر گول ميزنند تا گول بخورند ! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها بيشتر بخاطر حسادت نسبت به کسی ، در مورد کاری تلاش بيشتری ميکنندحتی در مورد غيبت کردن ! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها بيشتر از پسرها از واقعيت فرار ميکنند ! تجربه نشون داده که دخترها در همون برخورد اول استراتژی خود رو در مورد ارتباط با يک پسر تعيين ميکنند !برخورد يک دختر در بار اول فوق العاده انعطاف پذير است ! در حالی که در دفعات بعدی برخورد يک دختر بر حسب شناختی است که از همون برخورد اول بدست آورده !!!!!حتی اگر اين شناخت ناقص باشد

ايا ميتوان مرد ايده ال پيدا كرد يا نه؟



پیدا کردن مرد ایده آل زندگی یکی از حیاتی ترین مسائل در زندگی بعضی از خانم هاست. آنها همواره امیدوار به یافتن او هستند. به عنوان مژده ای به این خانم ها باید بگویم که نگران نباشید، مرد ایده آل وجود دارد و شما می توانید پیدایش کنید. البته همه ی ما در زندگی هدف ها، جاه طلبی ها و آرزوهای کوچک و بزرگ داریم. همین هدفهاست که ما را مشغول نگاه می دارد. این سال ها عبارات مرد ایده آل و زن ایده آل بسیار استفاده می شوند. همه برای این مرد ایده آل لیستی از خصوصیات تهیه می کنی.
بیشتر ما بدی های خودمان را نادیده می گیریم و انتظار داریم که ایده آل از راه برسد و دستمان را بگیرد. با خود فکر می کنیم که لیستی که ما تهیه کرده ایم خیلی کوچک و ناچیز است. در طول سالیان سال، مردم در این زمینه ها خبره تر شده اند. می دانند که چطور ارضا شوند، درآمد خوب و خانه ای زیبا دارند و تحصیلات عالیه هم کرده اند. و اینجاست که تصمیم می گیرند کسی را پیدا کنند که از هر لحاظ با آنها جور باشد و حمایت و یاریشان کند. و مشکلات آغاز می شود.
نکته ی مهم اینجاست که آن مرد ایده آل شما هم برای خود یکی از این لیست ها دارد و برای زن ایده آل خود خصوصیاتی را تعیین کرده است. او زنی می خواهد جوان، تحصیل کرده، زیبا و خوش اندام. ناراحت می شوید. و می بینید که این مرد ایده آل چه انسان معمولی بوده است. به لیستتان با دقت نگاه کنید و خصوصیات مرد ایده آلتان را دوباره مرور کنید. آیا فکر می کنید چنین شخصی را می توان پیدا کرد؟ اگر از لیستتان راضی هستید، پس مشکل کجاست؟
حالا می خواهید خودتان بیرون بروید و مرد ایده آلتان را پیدا کنید یا در خانه می مانید تا او سراغ شما بیاید؟ اکثر زنان می گویند آنها منتظر می مانند تا مرد ایده آل خودش سراغشان برود. کلمه ی "منتظر ماندن" کمی توجهم را جلب می کند. منتظر ماندن به این معنی است که مردها به طور اتفاقی به سراغتان می آیند، شما آنها را یکی یکی مطابق با لیستتان بررسی می کنید. و آنهایی را که با لیست هماهنگ نبودند را دور می اندازید. بله، اما دوستان من همیشه بیاد داشته باشید که مرد ایده آل شما هم دنبای زن ایده آل خودش می گردد. شما چقدر برای این مسئله تلاش کرده اید؟ چقدر سعی کرده اید که زن ایده آل او باشید ؟ یا اینکه گفته اید شما را باید همینطور که هستید بپذیرد و تغییری نمی کنید؟
سوالی که این روزها مردها مکرراً از هم می پرسند این است که "این دخترهای خوب کجا رفته اند؟" به این کلمات خوب فکر کنید. ببینید مردها واقعاً دنبال چه هستند. آنها می پرسند که آن دخترهایی که از این لیست ها در دست ندارند کجا رفته اند. اکثر مردها دنبال کسی هستند که دوستش داشته باشند، احساس ویژه ای نسبت به او داشته باشند و همه چیز را با او شریک شوند. مشکل اینجاست که نمی توانند چنین شخصی را پیدا کنند چون زیر فشار این لیست ها قدرت عمل خود را از دست داده اند. به آنها گفته می شود که باید خود را با این لیستها تطبیق بدهند، آنها تلاششان را می کنند و بعد خودشان هم دیگر دنبال زن ایده آلشان می روند.
شما به عنوان یک زن ایده آل نگاهی به لیستتان بیندازید و ببینید که چقدر انعطاف به خرج داده اید. بعد نگاهی به مرد ایده آلتان بیندازید و ببینید که چقدر به دست آوردنی است. بعد نگاهی به خصوصیات و توانایی های خودتان بیندازید و ببینید چقدر با خصوصیات زن ایده آل سازگاری دارید. بعد از خانه بیرون بروید و دنبال مرد ایده آلتان بگردید.
در خانه منتظر آمدن مرد ایده آل نباشید، چون ممکن است یکدفعه ببینید که مرد ایده آلتان با زن دیگری ازدواج کرده در حالی که می توانست مال شما باشد. و در آخر بدانید که سازش اساسی ترین نکته در زندگی است. همانطور که از مرد ایده آلتان یکسری خصوصیات را انتظار دارید، سعی کنید خود را هم با خصوصیات زن ایده آل او هماهنگ کنید
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تفاوت پسرا و دخترهاي ايراني


1) پسرها خيلي دوست دارن بجاي دي جي علي گيتورباشند ولي دخترها دوست دارن يك پزشك باشند يا يك دانشمند شايد بهتر بداني كه يك دختر شيرازي معماي انيشتن را حل كرد واورا انيشتن دوم لقب دادند
2) اگه يه پسر يك مشكل غير قابل حل داشته باشه كارتون خواب ميشه اما اگه يه دختر يك مشكل داشته باشه با خانواده اش درميان ميگذاره
3) اگه يه پسر دوتا مشكل غير قابل حل داشته باشه دزد ميشه قاچاق ميكنه قتل ميكنه اما اگه يه دختر دوتا مشكل داشته باشه مشاوره ميره ومشكلاتش حل ميكنه
4) اگه يه پسر مشكل دوميش شد سومي ميره تزريقي ميشه اما يه دختر از صفر شروع ميكنه وبه خودش اميد ميده وميگه هميني كه هست بايد از نو بسازم
5) پسرها از پسربودن خيري نديدن براي همين ميخوان خانم باشن وموهاشون بلند ميكنن
6) پسرها در ظاهر كلاه دارن اما وقتي دخترها تيغشون ميزنن بدجوري سرشون كلاه ميره
7) به پسرها تا بگي دوست دارم قلبشون ازجاكنده ميشه چون عقده شنيدن اين جمله رو سالها به دوش كشيده اما وقتي به دخترها ميگي دوست دارم اين جمله براشون اينقدر تكراري هست كه مثل سحرناز ميگن عاع
8) نقطه قوت پسرها شكمشون اما دخترها عقلشون
9) پسرها درآئين نامه 5 بارامتحان ميدن اما بدليل كودن بودنشان بازهم رد ميشن چه حالي ميده جالب اينجاست همشون عشق پيكان دارن و عشق گاز دادن اما نيم كللاج 50 سال ديگه هم ياد نميگيرن وقتي هم پارك ميكنن يا ميرن توجوب يا ميزنن به ماشين عقبي اما دخترها بار اول آئين نامه رو قبول ميشن وعشق پژو دارن درضمن سعي ميكنن نيم كلاج باحال داشته باشند تا درسربالائي با يه نيش گاز بدون اينكه برن عقب تعادل ماشين حفظ كنند
10) پسرها فكر ميكنن بهترين راه بلف زدن وبقول خودتون دروغ گفتن وازخودشون تعريف كردن هست اما دخترها عاقل هستن و بهترين راه بقول خودتون همان راستي ميدانن ومطالبي را كه برايتان نوشتم سرشار ازهمه اين راستيهاست
11) پسرها اصلا ازخودشون هم فراري هستند چه برسه درس ومدرسه اما دخترها همانطور كه بيشترين تعداد دانشجويان وشاغلين را دختران ايراني تشكيل داند جاي بحث نيست بهتره كمي مطالعه كنيد
12) پسرها به هم ديگه نارو ميزنن اما دخترها خنجرو از رو ميبندند بد نيست بدوني حسادت آدم موفق ميكنه چون اسم ديگراون رقابت هست
13)منطق پسرها اگر مول خواهرشون ببينند ميخوان بكشنش چون فكر ميكنن ترتيبشو داده مثال خرما خوردن اگه حرام چي شده كه براي خودشون حلال اما دخترها چون فهميده هستند وقتي دوست دختر برادرشون ميبينن احترام ميگذارند ودوست هم ميشن

14) پسرها زور ميزنن بجاي اينكه حرف زور بزنن امادخترها باكمال آرامش جواب پسرها رو ميدن ميگي نه چرا داري اين مطالب ميخوني پس هههههه
15) پسرها مثل حيوانات عمل ميكنند وزندگي را در شكم وزير شكم ميبينند دريغ از ذره اي فهم وشعور اما دخترها زندگي را به تمام مواردي كه خودتان ذكر كردي ميبينند چون انسان هستند.
16) پسرها ازبس سوتي دادن براي دخترها وهمه عادي شده اما يه دختر وقتي سوتي ميده همه تعجب ميكنن
17)يه پسر اگه تا 24 ساعت بادوست دختر صحبت نكنه اكس ميتركونه فاز صحبت ميگيره ودائم فكش مي جنبه اما يه دختر اگه 24 ساعت با يه پسر صحبت نكنه به كارهاي عقب افتاده خودش ميرسه
18)پسرها ميدونن چون فمنيسم يعني طرفدار زن بودن براي همين حسادت ميكنن ودوستش ندارن اما دخترها چون دوست دارن ازحقوق خودشان دفاع كنند طرفدار فمنيسم هستند
19) يه پسر اگه با دوست دخترش بهم بزنه وحشي ميشه ميره روش اسيد ميپاشه اما يه دختر وقتي با دوست پسرش بهم ميزنه يه خواستگار خوب براش پيدا ميشه ميگي نه روزنامه ها رو بخوني بد نيست بخصوص فليم هائي رو كه اخيرا نشان ميدن
20) ازيه پسر وقتي توخيابون بپرسي ساعت چنده اول تعجب ميكنه نديدبديد بعد كمي فكر ميكنه ميگه جان ساع ع ع ع ت 7ووووبراي اينكه بيشتر با دختر صحبت كنه 35 دقيقه ووو3 ثانيه اما يه دختر كم محلي ميكنه جوابش اصلا نميده 0
21) اگه به يه پسر نگاه كني شك ميكنه ميگه لابد اين هم ميدونه كه من بچگي 000 اما يه دختر وقتي پسر بهش نگاه ميكنه ميگه اسكل دهاتي نديد بديد 0
22) پسرا ميگن منو به غلامي خودتون قبول كنيد اما يه دختر براي خودش ارزش قائل ميشه حتي اگه سنش هم بالا بره باز براي خودش ارزش قائل هست 0
23) پسرها بعد از خوندن اين مطلب اول كمي فكر ميكنن وبعد ميخوان انتقام بگيرن وبا حرفهاي ركيك خودشون مطرح ميكنند اما دخترها خيلي منطقي جوابتون ميدن ميگي نه چرا تا آخر اين مطالب خوندي ودرفكر فرو رفتي

عاشق شدن خانمها

شـنيدن جواب رد از طـرف يـك زن بـراي مـردان اصـلا" مسئله خوشايندي نمي باشد. هيچ چيـز بـه انـدازه اينكه زن روياهايتان تقاضاي ازدواج شمـا را نـپـذيـرد، براييـتـان گـران تـمـام نـمي شود. پـيـش خـود تـصـور ميكرديد كه او به شما علاقه مند است ولي احتمالا" برداشتتان از علائم علاقمندي او اشتباه بوده است.از نقطه نظر مردان، زنان هنگام ابراز علايق رومانتيك خود بصورتي زيركانه و پيچيده عمل ميكنند(مگراينكه طرف مقابلشان خوش تيپ و پول دار باشد آنجوريكه خودشان اظهار مي كنند) و اكثر آنها جوابهاي ضـد و نقيضي ميـدهـند چون خودشان مطمئن نيستند كه چـه چيزي در سرشان ميگذرد.بنابراين آنچه كه اغلب آقايان به دنبالش هستند، يك سري علائم و نشانه هايي اسـت كه بوسيله آنها متوجه علاقمندي حقيقي طرف مقابلشان شوند.
در زير برخـي از نـشـانه هـاي كـه مي تـواند نـشانه علاقمندي يك زن باشد را مشاهده ميكنيد
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1- او همگام با شما است
ناگهان متوجه ميشويد كه او همه جا حضور دارد. او "بطور اتفاقي" هر كجا شما هستيد پيدايش مي شود، يا در راه روي محل كارتان مرتب جلوي شما قدم ميزند، يا "تصادفي" به شما برخورد ميكند، يا در ميهماني در اطراف شما مانور مي دهد.
آنچه كه او انجام ميدهد تلاش براي جلب توجه شما است، و بـراي اين اسـت كه خود را در موقعيتي قرار دهد تا شما "قدم اول" را برداريد. مسئله اينـجا اسـت كــه بـسـيـاري از مردان نسبت به اين عمل زنان بيتوجه هستند و به همين دليـل بسياري از فرصت ها را از دست ميدهند. مردان مستقيم عمل مي كنند، زنان غير مستقيم. بنابرايـن اگر زنـي مكررا" شروع به قـرار گـرفـتـن سـر راه شـما نـمود، احتمال اينكه او اينكار را عمدا" انـجام ميدهد زياد است.

2- او حركاتي بخصوص انجام مي دهد
يك جمله قديمي مي گويد:"جسم دروغ نمي گويد." طبيعت بشر را جوري برنامه ريزي نموده كه هنـگام ابـراز عـلاقه بـي اخـتيـار شـروع بـه انـجام يـك سـري حركات جسماني مشخص ميكند. اين اعمال غير شفاهـي از گـشاد شـدن چشم هنگام نظاره به چيزي جالب گرفته تا لبخند زدن و لمس كردن، متغير است.
در اينجا برخي از علائم زبان جسماني را مشاهده ميكنيد:
اشاره نمودن در جهت شما با پاها يا شانه ها
خم شدن به طرف شما هنگام صحبت
بازي كردن با مو و دست كشيدن لاي موها
نوازش كردن جواهرات ( مانند گوشواره ) و لمس نمودن دسته عينك
چشم برنداشتن از شما هنگام صحبت و گفتگو
تقليد از حركات شما ( مثلا" اگر دست خود را روي ميز بگذاريد او هم همين كار را ميكند.)
لبخند زدن هنگاميكه شما او را برانداز ميكنيد.

اگر برخي از اين علائم را هنگام حضور طرف مقابل مشاهده نموديد، تقريبا" مي توانيد مطمئن شويد كه او چراغ سبز شروع رابطه براي ازدواج را دارد به شما نشان ميدهد

3- او هيچگاه براي شما سرش شلوغ نيست
اين اصلي ترين قانون بازي عشق است. اگر زني علاقه به برقراري رابـطـه و بـيرون رفتن با شما داشته باشد، هميشه خودش را در دسترس قرار ميدهد. يـعنـي او يـك شـمـاره تلفن كاري يا آدرس ايميل به شما خواهد داد. او در اسرع وقت به تلفـن يا ايـميـل شـما جواب خواهد داد. او دعوت شما را براي با هم بودن خواهد پذيرفت - و اگر او در روزي كه شما تعيـين كرده ايد وقت نداشت، چيزي شبيـه اين خواهد گفت: "خوب، اين پنجشنبه نميتونم، اما اگر اشكال نداره بندازيم براي پنجشنبه ديگه، باشه؟ "
شـمـا هـرگـز از يـك زن عـلاقـمـند چـنين جملاتي را نخواهيد شنيد: " الان واقـعـا" سـرم شلوغه"، يا "بذار بينم وقت دارم"، يا "نميدونم بتونم بيام يا نه"
4- او در مورد شما كنجكاو است
زني كه به شما علاقمند است دوست دارد همه چيزتان را بداند ( تا بتواند در اين مـورد با دوستان دخترش صحبت كند). او درمورد خانواده،پيشينه،سليقه غذايي، موسيقي، فيلم و مسائل گوناگون شما پرسش خواهد كرد. انگيزه اصلي او اين اسـت كـه عـلايـق شما را بشناسد تا بتواند خود را داراي علايق مشــتـرك بــا شما نموده و پـيـوسـتـگـي بيشتري با شما ايجاد كند- اگر از قايق سواري خوشتان نميآيد، او نيز ناگهان از اين كار متنفر مي شود.
5- او وضعيت مالي شما را مي سنجد
زن علاقمند دوست دارد منابع و بنيه مالي همسر آينده خود را مورد سنجش قرار دهد. سؤالاتي مانند: "كجا زندگي ميكني؟"، "چه ماشيني داري؟" و "شغلت چيه؟" مـيتواند نشانه علاقمندي وي باشد. اگر پاسخ اين سؤالات مطابق با "استانداردهاي" او باشــد، علائم بعدي ظاهر خواهند شد وگرنه او در غباري از مه فرو خواهد رفت.
6- او در مورد آينده صحبت ميكند
يك زن علاقمند هميشه دوست دارد در مورد نقشه هاي آينده و كارهايي كه ميتوانيد با هم انجام دهيد اشتياق نشـان مـي دهد. درواقع او اغلب چيزي شـبـيـه ايـن ميـگـويـد: "واي... تـو هـم از بـوليـنگ خوشت مياد؟ بايد يه بار با هم بريم بازي كنيم." اگر او چنين عمل نمود، شك نكنيد كه دوست دارد ازش بخواهيد با شما بيرون برود.
7- او بيقراري و بي تابي ميكند
اگر او واقعا" علاقمند باشد، همانند يك گربه دور و بر شما دستپاچه و بيقرار خواهد بود، بخصوص هنگاميكه شما نتوانيد متوجه علائم اشتياق او شويد. البته ممكن است كه ذاتا" يك شخص خجالتي نرمال باشد - اگر او فقط پيش شما بي قراري ميكند، احتمالا در سرش فكر ازدواج دارد.
8- او نسبت به زنان ديگر، حسادت مي ورزد
يك زن سعي مي كـند از مـرد مـورد علاقه خود همانند يك عقاب مراقبت نموده و او را با چنگ و دندان حفظ كند. بنابراين اگر در حـال جوك گفـتن بـراي زنـان ديـگر متـوجـه حرص خوردن و جلز و ولز كردن او شـديـد، بـدانـيد كـه او انـتظار دارد برايش بيشتر از يك دوست باشيد.
نشانه هاي فوق ممكن است لزوما" دليل بر علاقـمـندي يك زن نـبـاشد چـون بـرخـي از زنان كلا" با ديگران حالتي دوستانه دارند اما اگر تـعـداد زيـادي از ايـن عـلائم را در فـردي مشاهده نموديد ميتوانيد به خود اميدواري دهيد و به دلتان صابون بزنيد
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Thursday, March 16, 2006

To My Friendsتقديم به تمام دوستانم






If you should die before me, ask if you could bring a friend. -- Stone Temple Pilots
اگر تو خواستی قبل از من بميری
بهم بگو که می خوای يه دوست رو هم همراه خودت ببری يا نه .
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you. -- Winnie the Pooh
اگر می خوای صد سال زندگی کنی
من می خوام يه روز کمتر از صد سال زندگی کنم
چون من هرگز نمی تونم بدون تو زنده باشم.




True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it is lost. -- Charles Caleb Colton
دوستی واقعی مثل سلامتی هست
ارزش اون رو معمولا تا وقتی که از دستش بديم نمی دونيم.
A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
يک دوست واقعی اونی هستش که وقتی مياد
که تموم دنيا از پيشت رفتن.




Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Walk beside me and be my friend. -- Albert Camus
جلوی من قدم بر ندار،
شايد نتونم دنبالت بيام.
پشت سرم راه نرو،
شايد نتونم رهرو خوبی باشم.
کنارم راه بيا و دوستم باش.
Friends are God's way of taking care of us.
دوستان، روش خدا برای محافظت از ما هستن.


Friendship is one mind in two bodies.
-- Mencius دوستی يعنی يک روح در دو بدن .
I'll lean on you and you lean on me and we'll be okay -- Dave Matthews
من به تو تکيه می کنم و تو به من
و اونوقت همه چيزمون مرتبه.


If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them, I'd be at the bottom to catch them.
اگر تمام دوستام بخوان از يه پل رد بشن،
من با اونا عبور نخواهم کرد،
بلکه اون طرف پل خواهم بود برای کمک به اونا.
Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you say. Best friends listen to what you don't say.
هر کسی چيزايی رو که شما می گين می شنوه.
ولی دوستان به حرفای شما گوش می دن.
اما بهترين دوستان
حرفايی رو که شما هرگز نمی گين می شنون.
My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life.; -- Lee Iacocca
پدرم هميشه بهم می گه موقع مردن ،
اگر پنج تا دوست واقعی داشته باشی ،
اونوقت هست که زندگی بزرگی داشتی.

Hold a true friend with both your hands.; -- Nigerian Proverb
يک دوست واقعی رو دو دستی بچسب.




A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words.; -- Unknown
يه دوست، فردی هست که آهنگ قلبت رو می دونه
و می تونه وقتی تو کلمات رو فراموش می کنی
اونا رو واسه ات بخونه.





Pass this on to all of your FRIENDS,even if it means sending it to the person that sent it to you. And if you receive this e-mail many times from many different people, it only means that you have many FRIENDS. And if you only get it but once, do not be discouraged for you will know that you have AT LEAST ONE GOOD FRIEND. اين فايل رو واسه تموم دوستاتون ارسال کنين
حتی اگر بايد اون رو واسه دوستی بفرستين که فايل رو ازش دريافت کردين.
و اگه شما اين ايميل رو به تعداد زياد و از آدمای متفاوت دريافت کردين
اين يعنی اينکه شما دوستای فراوونی دارين.و اگه فقط يه بار واسه تون ارسال شد
دلسرد نشين ، چون شما می دونين که حداقل يه دوست خوب دارين.